Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Live Your Life, and Let People Live Theirs.

What's good people? It's ya boy Brad H coming back at you once again. Ah, it's definitely been a hot minute since I last wrote. It's been almost three weeks to be exact. We've had quite a few thing happen since the last time I last wrote. The biggest thing is probably the presidential election. I'm not going to come up with any excuses for my extended absence, because I really don't have any excuses. However, the creative juices that sit within my mind have been splashing back and forth like a bottle of soda being swung back and forth. Oh boy, where did I come up with that analogy? Anyway, it's quite good to be back writing once again, and welcome to another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". Today's post is going to be titled; "Live Your Life, and Let People Live Theirs". Lets get into it.

For those of you that are fans of R&B music, you're probably heard with the group Jagged Edge. I remember a song Jagged Edge had back around in 2003 titled "Walked out of Heaven". There was a lyric from that song that went "If I continue to push, she'll just pull away". Now I know that the singer was referring to love in that song. However, that's not exactly what I'm referring to in this particular post. I'm mainly just using it as a comparison. I'm referring mainly to people and life. Believe it or not, many of us often push some of the people that we care about most out of our lives, because we're too involved in their lives. Lets take this for an example.

You can have two people that are friends with each other, and end up falling out because one of them wants to know the other friend's every move. They may want to know what's going on in their personal life, or always constantly calling or texting them. You may ask yourself, isn't that what friends and family are for? To be there for one another, and to know what's going on with each other. Well, yes it's very true that we want people in our lives that we can rely on etc. However, everyone has a personal life. Sometimes that personal life that includes things that people don't care to share with anyone. No matter how close you may be to someone, there will always be things that you don't know about them.

Some people may view this as a surprise, or even suggest that something is wrong with this. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. As free individuals, we are free to live our lives however we see fit. As long as we're not hurting anyone or breaking the law, you're allowed to be whomever you wish to be. The bottom line is that you have to live your own life, and let others live theirs. If a person doesn't want to have anything to do with you, move on and get over it. If you truly care about someone and they push you away, let them. If you're a good friend to them, they'll most likely end up regretting it down the road, and it leaves you with the option of bringing your personality into someone else's life that will appreciate having you. Remember this, a person that has faith in themselves doesn't worry or dwell on how others treat them.

So to sum it all up, live and let live people. Quite frankly, a person should be focused so much on themselves, that they shouldn't have time to pry around in others business. Know your limits on how far to dig into someone's life. You may find yourself losing them if you push and pry too hard. Let people be themselves. Finally, keep it moving if someone isn't interested in you. It can be challenging, but it's definitely possible to do. Well that's it for this edition of Brad H's Perspective. I want to wish everyone a happy and safe Thanksgiving. Thanks for reading, and we'll see you soon with another update. Brad H out!

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

It's All About You.


What's up once again people? It's your main man Brad H. coming back at you again with another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". As always, I want to thank everyone who takes out the time to check out these posts and have left positive feedback. It's always great to know that there are people out there who embrace and appreciate positive thinking. Before I get into this week's discussion, I want to give a shout out to a friend of mine in the Philippines named Marie. She has a blog titled "Lets Inspire", and a few weeks back, she invited me to contribute a post to her blog. You can find her blog here at this web address http://www.lets-inspire.com/. I felt honored that she asked for my input, and I'm even more honored that she invited me to contribute regularly based on the first blog post I had written. Gotta love how the Internet connects like-minded people from all walks of life. Anyway, check out her blog if you're able to. Alright this week's post is "All About You".

What do I mean when I say "It's All About You"? I mean that your life is all about you; literally. I was having a discussion with some friend's of mine last week, and we were talking about how people are always going to have something to say about you. It doesn't matter how good or bad of a person you may be, people will always have an opinion regarding you. Whether you're doing too much, or not doing enough, people will always find something to say about what you're doing, or what you're not doing. You can be the most popular person in the world, or you can keep yourself isolated from others, people are going to find something to say about it. The bottom line is that there is no way around it, people are going to talk about you. Guess what though; It doesn't even matter! All that matters is how you view your own life. It's all about you.

A lot of us get caught up in that frame of mind of worrying about what others think of us. Some people allow it to consume them to the point where they try living up to what others think. Now it's natural and quite normal to worry about what others think to an extent. Just because people talk and have an opinion, doesn't mean that it's always bad. When someone compliments or says something nice to us, it definitely has a way of changing our perceptions for the better. However, no matter whether opinions of others are positive or negative, they shouldn't determine nor play the final factor in deciding how you view yourself. You are the only person who has to be happy and content with who you are, so how you view yourself all depends upon you. Think about it like this. There are 24 hours in a day right? No matter who is around you or for how long, you're going to spend all of those hours with yourself regardless. In a way you can say that you're stuck with yourself, so you might as well focus on what you think rather than others.

So to sum it all up, just remember that it's your life, and it is all about you. Let people say whatever they want about you. You can't stop them from talking, but you have complete control over how you choose to react. A good portion of the people who say negative things about you aren't going to confront you about it, so try not to sweat it too much. Well that's all for this edition of "Brad H's Perspective". Thanks again to everyone for the continued love and support. I definitely got more ideas churning in my head, and more content coming. Be sure to stay tuned. Remember that none of us are perfect, and that many of us are a work in progress. The idea with this blog is not to judge or criticize, but to motivate myself and others as well. Till next time, Brad H out!

NFL Fantasy Football 2012: Week 3 In Review.


NFL Fantasy Football 2012: Week 3 In Review.

What's good everyone. Here is my week 3 review of the various fantasy football teams that I'm managing for 2012. I know I'm beginning to sound like a broken record posting all late, but I suppose it's better late than never right? Anyway, check it out, and let me know what you think. Be on the lookout for other reviews as well. Brad H out!

Saturday, October 20, 2012

It Will All Pass Eventually.


What's going on people? It's ya man Brad H coming back at you once again with another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". Like I mention always, thanks a lot for tuning in. It's been a couple of weeks since I wrote an original blog post. Last week was my godmother's birthday, so her and other family members came into town to celebrate. We had a great time overall. I'm now looking forward to Thanksgiving this year. We had a great one last year, and I'm hoping this next one will be even better. Alright enough of all that, it's time to get into this weeks discussion. I'm titling it; "It Will All Pass Eventually".

Bad news, bad incidents, and troubles are all a part of life. There is no way of getting out or around it. Any person that is alive and under the sun, is bound to have bad things happen from time to time. Often times we may receive bad news, or get hit with something negative. It's only natural for something bad happening to change our moods a bit. I mean you can be having a great day, and then someone can come along and ruin it for you. Now being that we're all different and react to things differently, I'm not suggesting that everyone allows others to ruin their mood. Some people have extremely thick skin, and don't let anything or anyone affect how their day is going. However, no matter how tough a person is or claims to be, everyone has a breaking point in life.

No matter how hard times get or how bad things tend to be, just know that it will all pass over eventually. None of us can control what anyone says or thinks about us. However, we can control how we choose to react. You can either let bad things and what others say get to you and break you down, or you can choose to let it roll off of your shoulder. Pain is a part of life, but it doesn't have to control and dictate your life. Things may hurt or bother us for sometime, but they will eventually pass if you're open to moving forward. I had a conversation with my godmother's husband a few months back, and we were discussing a serious topic. He said something to me that has stuck with me since that conversation. He said something along the lines of "It's okay to cry tonight, but it's all about what you do tomorrow." Pretty wise words if you ask me.

So the bottom line is that we need to keep our minds and hearts open to moving on. Life is all about progressing, so we gotta do what we need to in order to keep moving forward. So to everyone that got fed some negativity today, or may be having a lot of bad things happening now, it will all pass eventually. Just remember keep your head up, and try to keep a positive outlook. Like that old saying goes; "Tough times don't last, tough people do". Well that's it for this edition of "Brad H's Perspective". Remember that no one is perfect, and we're all human beings. Uplifting and encouraging one another is the way to go. That's exactly what I'm trying to do with this blog. More content is on the way, so stay tuned. Thanks for tuning in, and we'll see you in the next post. Peace!

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

NFL Fantasy Football 2012: Week 2 In Review.

NFL Fantasy Football 2012: Week 2 In Review.

Good evening world. It's ya man Brad H coming at you once again. Tonight I'm posting my week number 2 review of the various fantasy football leagues that I'm participating in for 2012. Tomorrow starts a new week of NFL action, so I'll be working on the review of last weeks games throughout the night, and tomorrow. I have to get fully up to date ya digg? Anyway, check out the review, and feel free to leave comments and feedback. Hope everyone is doing well, and we'll see you in the next one. Peace!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

NFL Fantasy Football 2012: League Basics, and Week 1 in Review.

NFL Fantasy Football 2012: League Basics, and Week 1 in Review.

What up people? It's ya boy Brad H. coming at you once again. It's been a couple of weeks since I've last posted. There has been quite a bit going on, so I haven't been updating. At any rate, things are fairly back to normal now. I'm super late with this particular post. Anyone who knows me, knows that I play fantasy sports year round. My favorite fantasy game to play is fantasy football. I decided that I was going to do weekly reviews on how I perform in the various leagues that I'm playing in. We're already in week 7 of the NFL season, so I got a lot of catching up to do with the updating.

This is the first article that I wrote regarding fantasy football. It's a review of the leagues that I'm playing in, and a review of the first week. I'm writing these articles though Hubpages, so feel free to click on them and check them out. I'll be putting the others up as soon as I'm able to. I'll be hitting you all with a regular blog posting sometime this week. Well I'm out, so thanks for tuning in.

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Don't entertain people who aren't worth your time.


Alright alright alright. What's good people? It's ya boy Brad H. coming back at you once again. Welcome to another edition of "Brad H.'s Perspective". As always, I appreciate all of you who take out time from your day to check out these blog postings. It's a rainy Saturday here in Texas, but it's totally fine with me. Just being able to wake up and be able to see that rain is a blessing in itself. Hope everyone else is having a great Saturday also. Alright it's time to get into this weeks topic. It deals with giving attention to people who don't deserve it. Lets get into it!

In this thing called life, we are bound to meet various kinds of people. Some of the people we encounter will be individuals that we connect instantly with. Then there will be others who will develop into good friends of ours. We also have a selected few with whom we will develop an even deeper connection with. This world is like a melting pot full of personalities and people with different qualities. Many of us try to see the good in people that we encounter, and I personally think that admirable. I will admit myself that I try to find the good in everyone that I talk to. However, it's a known fact that not everyone you talk to or become involved with, will be worth your time.

I simply make this point because it appears to be happening all too often these days. So many people are worried about and stressing over people who quite frankly aren't worth the stress or energy. Many people are placing other people, who don't even seem to respect them enough on too high of a pedestal. The same high standards and regards that you give to others, you should be giving to yourself FIRST! I mentioned this in a previous blog post, but it can't be stated enough. All things including your happiness, starts with you first. It's just amazing to me how some of the most beautiful individual's, especially on the inside allow their feelings and emotions to be cheapened by others, who just treat them any kind of way. It's hard to watch sometimes, and it needs to change.

We as a people need to have more confidence in who we are. Don't entertain people who aren't worth your time. Focus on being the happiest person that you can be, and then try to surround yourself with people who do mean you well. It may take quite some time to do this, and you may have to endure a period of loneliness. However, it's definitely worth the time. We have to weed out all of the weak links in our lives in order to find the genuine and sincere people. Time is valuable, and it shouldn't be spent on people not worth it. In closing I'll just say that people will come and go, and often times you'll be let down by others. Regardless to what others say about you or do to you, you can always rely on yourself.

Well that's it for this weeks edition of "Brad H.'s Perspective". As I've mentioned in previous postings, these words are meant to inspire all including myself. Nobody is perfect, and I'm far from it myself. Many of us are all in the same struggle, so we have to spread positive messages and encourage each other. I always find that I'm always encouraged when someone leaves me great feedback. Hopefully "Brad H.'s Perspective" encourages you as well. Well I hope everyone enjoys the rest of this Saturday, and we'll be back at it again soon. Till then; peace, love, and blessings to all.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Pick your battles wisely.


Yo what's good people? It's ya boy Brad H coming back at you once again with another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". As always, I want to thank those of you who take out the time to read these blog postings. I appreciate it very much, and the positive feedback that I've received inspires me a lot. Whether the feedback was left directly through this blog, or another format, I thank you all so much. I always enjoy reading what you all think. I know it's been a hot minute since I've updated this blog with new content. Besides the usually, I've been coming up with ideas to write about. At any rate, your boy is back once again. Alright lets get into this weeks topic. It deals with picking and choosing your battles wisely.

Now we're all aware that any person, who is of a sound mind knows that nobody can win at everything. Many of us believe that we know every single thing there is to know about life, which sure as heck isn't the case. Some of us believe that we're good at everything we attempt to do, which sure as heck isn't the case either. It's okay to have a positive outlook of believing that we can be successful at anything we try. Setting goals is always a positive thing. However, the truth is that no matter how hard we try, there will be some things that we just won't get. Every single human-being has something, or a host of things that we're talented at or passionate about. Those are the things that we should focus on becoming better at. We have to learn to wisely pick and choose our battles.

Lets take a few examples here. There are some people who are good at sports and athletics. There are others who may be scholars, or good at debating others. If you're not a good debater, then you probably shouldn't be debating with someone who is experienced at it. The logic of picking our battles wisely can be easily applied to our everyday lives as well. I'll give you another example. Often times, we will encounter people who have strong personalities. I'm in no way saying that having a strong personality is a bad thing, however, a lot of people like this tend to believe they know everything. People like this will often argue with others back and forth until they get the last word in. There are also times when you may have two people with strong personalities going at it. Those are the worse battles to be frank, and those battles are often no win situations. In these types of scenarios, walking away may be the wisest choice to make. Unfortunately, some people have too much pride to walk away. They view it as a sign of weakness.

Sometimes it's just wise to walk away and let things be. This doesn't necessarily mean that you've lost the battle, it just means that you're wise enough to know which battles to fight for yourself. Wisdom overcomes ignorance in the end. Unfortunately, I'm seeing the number of wise people decreasing, and the levels of ignorance among people seems to be on the steady rise. I suppose the most important thing that I would want someone to take from this topic is to stick to what you know. Like I mentioned earlier, everyone is good at something, so it's important to focus on the things you're good at. Work on expand upon whatever talents or attributes you have. Don't ever allow yourself to get caught up in what others think, or allow yourself to be pulled into a battle you're not comfortable fighting. Remember to stick to what you know, and don't let the little things get to you too much.

Well that's it for this edition of "Brad H's Perspective". I hope that anyone who read through this edition enjoyed it. Again, I apologize for being away so long. We all know that life unfortunately sometimes gets in the way of doing the things we enjoy. However, we will always be able to make time for the things we're passionate about. I hope to be writing you all again next week sometime. I'm still in the process of updating the hubs that I wrote from the challenge on Hubpages. I think I'm halfway through now, so keep staying tuned for those. Alright I'm out. Peace, love, and blessings to all.

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Product Review: "Perfect.PUSHUP" (Basic).

Product Review: "Perfect.PUSHUP" (Basic).

Hello once again good people. Here is another hub from the challenge I participated in on Hubpages back in June-July. This was hub number 14 from the 30 day challenge. There isn't anything that special, or required a lot of thought in writing out this hub. It's just a review of a product that I own called the "Perfect.PUSHUP (Basic). Check out the review, and let me know what you think. Well that's it for now. Stay tuned for the upcoming hubs from the challenge. Brad H out!

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Opinion topic: Five things that we allow to become our real enemies.

Opinion topic: Five things that we allow to become our real enemies.

What's up once again? This is Brad H back at you, and I'm presenting another hub that I wrote during the "30 hubs in 30 days" challenge that I took part in during the months of June and July. This is hub number 13 that I came up with. It was one that came directly from the top of my head, and required little to no research. Those are the kind of articles I always enjoy writing; mainly because I know it's all me. Anyway, the article is titled "Five things that we allow to become our real enemies", and it points out five things that we allow to become our real enemies. People aren't always our biggest enemies. It's the small things that we least expect that we allow to control us. Check it out and let me know what you think. Alright I'm out, so take care everyone. Peace.

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

DVD Review: "Knockaround Guys" (2002).

DVD Review: "Knockaround Guys" (2002).




Hey what it do? This is Brad H once again presenting you with hub number 12 from the "30 hubs in 30 days" challenge I done. This is a movie review on one of my favorite movies, "Knockaround Guys". This movie starred Barry Pepper, Vin Diesel, Seth Green, Dennis Hopper, and John Malkovich. R.I.P. to Dennis Hopper. Anyway, check out the review and let me know what you think. Peace, love, and blessings.

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Five NBA players who are mainly remembered for their wins in the NBA Slam Dunk Contest.

Five NBA players who are mainly rememberd for their wins in the NBA Slam Dunk Contest.

Hello once again folks. I present you with hub number 11 out of 30 from the 30 day hub challenge. This was another fun article to research. This was one that I had been thinking of doing for quite sometime, but it honestly left my scattered mind at some point. However, I'm glad that my brain decided to pull it back up from the depths. Anyway, check it out, and let me know what you think. Brad H out!

Monday, August 27, 2012

"Mighty Morphin Power Rangers": Original actors, the characters they portrayed, and their post ranger lives.

"Mighty Morphin Power Rangers": Original actors, the characters they portrayed, and their post ranger lives.

Hey what's up again peeps? It's been awhile since I posted articles from the Hubpages "30 in 30" challenge I done back between June and July. I'm not even going to say that I know which number this hub was. I honestly don't remember. Anyway, this is an article I had written on the "Mighty Morphin Power Rangers". I highlighted  the six original power rangers, and tried to give updates on where they are now. It was pretty fun doing research for this one. Anyway, feel free to check it out. Brad H out!

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Don't dwell on things for too long.

Hey what's up folks? This is your boy Brad H once again, and welcome to another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". As always, I hope all is good and well with everyone. Today is a Sunday, and I'm pretty excited. Tonight I'm participating in a fantasy football draft for one of the leagues that I'm participating in this year. Being a part of the fantasy drafts is a reminder for me that football is right around the corner. Like many others, I'm looking forward to the upcoming football season starting. Alright it's time to get into this weeks topic. Today's blog post is going to be another fairly brief and to the point post. It has to deal with dwelling on the things that happen in our lives.

Now we're all aware that life is like a roller coaster ride filled with many ups and downs. Life often includes many twists and turns that can affect us and how we live our lives. Most of ups, downs, twists, and turns are for the better. However, sometimes they're for the worst. As great and wonderful life is, there are always bad things hovering over us. There is no way around it. No matter who you are in this world, you're going to face problems and challenges at some point or another. Now I personally believe that we as a people worry ourselves more over the bad events that take place in our lives, rather than focusing on the good ones. I'm in no way saying this applies to everyone. There are some people in the world that are extremely positive, and hold their heads up regardless what is going on. I personally just see more instances of people pondering on the bad events that takes place. I personally believe this is one of the biggest mistakes that we can make. We can't allow ourselves to dwell on anything for too long.





The biggest problem with dwelling too long on anything, is it defeats us from progressing. Constantly thinking and pondering on the bad things that happen can lead to stagnation. It's totally fine to feel down about certain things that happen. That's what being a human-being is all about. We all have feelings, so there are always going to be things to occur that have an effect on us. Life is very unpredictable and can be full of disappointments. However, it's not about how you take the disappointments; it's about what you do next. We can choose to lay down and allow them to beat us down, or we can choose to take action. Are you going to let disappointments get you down to the point where you stay down, or are you going to react? Those are the choices that we all face.

Most people measure winning or losing on whether a person places first in a competition. Life itself is a competition that is full of winners and losers. My personal belief is that the only way a person can lose is if they choose to take themselves out of the game. As long as you're in the trenches trying to progress, you're a winner regardless if you're where you want to be or not. Everyday that we wake up is a new day to make things happen for ourselves. The main message that I'm trying to convey in this post is that we need to keep on moving and progressing. Lets not dwell on the bad things for too long. As I said in a previous blog post, we gotta keep it moving.

Well that's it for this weeks edition of "Brad H's Perspective". I hope anyone who read it enjoyed it. I'm bout to sign off for this time, but hopefully I'll be back in a few days or so with another topic. I hope that everyone has a great weekend ahead. Also shout out to all the students going back to school this week. I hope you all have a great school year. Till then, peace, love, and blessings to all. Brad H out!

Sunday, August 19, 2012

You can only get away with things for so long.

What's up once again everyone? This is your boy Brad H hitting you up once again with another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". As always, thanks for tuning in, and I hope this blog post reaches everyone in good health and spirits. Today's post is going to be fairly brief and to the point. It's something that has been on my mind heavily for the past few months. I'm going to title it; "You can only get away with things for so long". I hope you enjoy reading my thoughts on this subject. Lets get into it.

"You can only get away with things for so long". Of course there is a reason why I make this statement, and why I chose it as the title for this posting. I've been noticing that many people have been mistreating, and showing a lack of respect towards others. Some people are acting as if they are better than others, almost to the point where they think it's their place to look down upon people. Maybe it's because they feel they have a higher status than someone else, or they obviously have a huge ego. The bottom line is that people who engage in this type of behavior, eventually end up hitting a brick wall. You can't go around treating people badly, and expect good things to happen for you. Being this way is almost like putting on a masquerade. You know how so many people front and act a certain way to impress others? Well the real you eventually comes out. You can only get away with things for so long.





I know that some people can't see past their ego, and may not get what I'm saying. However, as much as some people like to believe they're all that, nobody stays on top forever. Just because you knowingly mistreat others now and haven't suffered any consequences as yet, doesn't mean it's always going to be that way. I just don't understand how some people could be so insecure within themselves, that they have to be a jerk towards others to get a rise out of themselves. The thing with karma is that it has many ways of creeping up on us unexpectedly. It may come in the form of something happening directly to us, or something happening to something or someone we care about. Either way you view it, we always get what is coming to us in the end, whether it's for good or bad. The bottom line is this; watch how you treat other people. If you're mean and hateful towards others, eventually you're going to have to answer for it. We're all human, and anyone of us can end up in the same situation as someone else. What you put into this world is what you get back. I know that some people don't believe in karma, but I'd rather risk having good karma coming towards me than bad.

Well that's it for this edition of "Brad H's Perspective". I hope that it was enjoyable to read, and hopefully it was able to reach someone. As always, I'll be back again soon with another posting, so stay tuned. Thanks for reading, and enjoy the week ahead. Peace, love, and blessings to all. Brad H out!

Saturday, August 4, 2012

You can't have it both ways with people.

What's up once again world. It's your boy Brad H coming at you once again with another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". It's definitely been awhile since I wrote an installment of Brad H's Perspective. As some of you may know, I recently done the "30 hubs in 30 days" writing challenge on Hubpages. I initially intended on keeping my blog updated while doing the challenge. Unfortunately, I ended up getting behind during the challenge, and was unable to write on this blog like I wanted. Now that the challenge is over with, I can focus once again on the topics I want to discuss. If you've read this far in this particular post, I thank you. I also hope that this reaches everyone in good health and spirits. Lets go ahead and get into what we're talking about today.

Today's topic deals with people who think it's okay to have it both ways with other people. You may be asking yourself; what do you mean have it both ways? What I mean by having it both ways; is basically someone who claims to be a real friend or family member, but they're only there when it's convenient for them. Some of you may very well know a person or a group of people who engage in this ugly habit. A person who wants to have it both ways with other people are often the type of people you don't hear from until they need you for something. When I say something, I'm not only talking about material or physical items. It could be for advice, support, or just a shoulder to lean on. These are people who always expect for us to be there for them, but they're seldom found if and when the tables turn. To sum it all up, these are basically shady people who are users in it's true essence..

I can't speak for anyone else, but I find myself being very annoyed with people who believe it's okay to have it both ways with people. Quite frankly, in my opinion friends or people in our lives who use this tactic aren't real friends, or real people in general. Of course things happen in life and people tend to get busy. We all know that people can lose touch at times, and that shouldn't change a friendship. However, it's not cool to be one of those people who only calls someone when things are going bad for you. The way I see it, if you have enough time to call someone when things are going bad, then you can also call someone and say hi or check up on them when things are going good for you as well. It's that's simple.

It's just amazing to me how some people act as if things in life can't change. Just because you're on top of the world today, doesn't mean you always will be. So many people develop cocky and arrogant attitudes as if they no longer need others. The ironic thing is these are the same people running and looking for people to turn to when things start going downhill. So you don't need anyone when you're up, but you want people around when you're down? That's the true definition of a person who wants it both way with others. A real individual doesn't do that. That's what a user does. Don't be a user who has time and a need for their family and friends for their own personal and convenient reasons. That's not the real or right thing to do, and a person like that doesn't deserve to have good people in their lives. Remember, it's hard to climb up, but easy to fall back down. You want to have friends and people there for you if you ever do fall right? Treating others right and being loyal to them increases the chances of having them around.

There is however a remedy for dealing with these kinds of people. We can always choose to not deal with them. I'm not the type of person who believes in doing evil for evil, but I don't think we should allow ourselves to be taken advantage of either. We all have basic common sense, and it should be used in these types of scenarios. If someone is using you or attempting to have it both ways with you, tell them how you honestly feel. If they don't respond, or are not willing to meet you halfway, then it's probably best to remove yourself from their lives. If you're a true and loyal friend to them, they'll end up regretting wanting to have it both ways with you. It always happens in the end. Let them know that you're not a crutch or footstool that they can always depend on. It all boils down to having high self-esteem, and some people will try to play on your emotions -- especially if you're a good person who has a kind heart.

Well that's it for this installment of "Brad H's Perspective". I hope that someone finds it both easy to relate to, and encouraging as well. I hope that there can be a discussion about this. Do you have people who want to have it both ways with you? Are you a person who attempts to have it both ways with others? If so, lets talk about it. This blog is all about addressing issues, and hopefully learning and growing from them. Like I mention in all my other posts, I'm far from perfect. I'm looking to grow and become a better individual as well. Thanks for reading. Until next time, peace, love, and blessings to all. Brad H out!

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

TV series review: "Playmakers" (2003).

TV series review: "Playmakers" (2003).

Hey what's up folks. It's ya boy coming back at you once again. Hope everyone is doing well and staying up. Well here is the ninth article that I wrote for the challenge I recently done on Hubpages. It's a review of a show that I felt like had a lot of potential for future seasons, "Playmakers". I won't mention too much about the show now, that's what the article is there for. Anyway, I hope anyone who checks it out enjoys it, and feel free to drop comments and feedback. Well I'm out for now, so I'll see you all next time. Till then, peace, love, and blessings to everyone.

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Three online sites that I've earned from, along with payment proofs. (Second edition)

Three online sites that I've earned from, along with payment proofs. (Second edition)

Hey what's up again people. I know that I've been slacking on updating this blog with my articles from the challenge on Hubpages. Sometimes it feels like there isn't enough time in the day to get everything we need to do done. Therefore, I want to say that from here on, I'm going to try to post as often as I can. I don't want to be saying I'm going to do it daily, and then not get around to doing it. I try to be a guy of my word. Anyway, here is article number 8 from the challenge. It's the second edition of an installment that I've been writing on Hubpages. The goal is to make others aware of online sites that are legit. Not only do I give an overview of these various sites, I also have payment proofs to show they are legit. The title of the article is pretty self-explanatory, so feel free to click on it and check it out. Well that's it for not. I'll see the guys the next time. Hopefully it's more sooner than later. Peace, love, and blessings to all.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Anger: Controlling it, and finding ways to use it toward positive things.

Anger: Controlling it, and finding ways to use it toward positive things.

Peace, love, and blessings. It's your man Brad H once again. I missed out on a couple of days posting links to the articles I'd written for the "30 hubs in 30 days challenge". However, I'm back once again, and I present you with the seventh article that was done for the challenge. This was one of my personal favorites that I had written. I mainly like it because the majority of it came solely from within me. I let a few family members and friends read it, and they found it honest and truthful -- which I consider a good thing. Anyway, the article itself deals with anger and finding ways to control it. I won't discuss it too much here, but I'm hoping you will read it. Any and all feedback is welcomed. Well I'm out for now. Gotta go get in some running. I may try to post another article later on tonight. If not, I'll definitely post again tomorrow. Till then, everyone stay up. This is Brad H signing off.

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Product Review: "Amazing Grass Organic Wheat Grass".

Product Review: "Amazing Grass Organic Wheat Grass".

Hey what's up everyone. You already know who it is. Tonight's post will be extremely short. Today was a long day, and I just got in about 2 hours ago. Today was a good one though. I went and saw "The Dark Knight Rises", and I got to hang out with my mom and sister. Being with family is always a special occasion for me. I'm actually planning on writing a review of "The Dark Knight Rises" soon. Stay tuned. I'm kinda pressed for time, so lets get to it. This was article number six from the challenge I recently done on Hubpages. It's just a brief product review of this brand of wheat grass that I started using towards the end of May. Feel free to check out the article and leave your comments. I'll be back tomorrow to share the seventh article. Well I hope you all enjoy, and I'll see you soon. Peace, love, and blessings to all.

Friday, July 20, 2012

Opinion topic: Physical fitness, Health, and Finances.

Opinion topic: Physical fitness, Health, and Finances.

Hey everyone. This is Brad H once again. This article that I'm posting tonight was actually the fourth article that I had written for the "30 hubs in 30 days" challenge. Unfortunately, I got a few of the articles mixed up when I had ordered them on my notepad. I suppose the order of how I got them out doesn't really matter to much. The most important thing is that I done it right? Anyway, this was one of my favorites that I wrote during the challenge. I received some great feedback on it. Hopefully you will find it interesting yourself. Well there is the link for anyone who is interested in reading. I'm heading off to sleep soon. Going to go see "The Dark Knight Rises" tomorrow. I also want to give my condolences to the families affected by the movie theater shooting in Aurora, Colorado. That was truly a sad and unfortunate event, and I was shocked when I had awaken to see it on the news. My prayers and thoughts are with everyone affected. Well see you all next time. Till then, peace, love, and blessings to all.

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Should random Olympic-style Drug Testing be required in all boxing matches?

Should random Olympic-style Drug Testing be required in all boxing matches?

What's up once again people? It's Brad H hitting you once again with another article from the "30 hubs in the 30 days challenge". This is the fourth article that I wrote for the challenge. As you can probably tell from the title, this is a boxing related article. If you're not into boxing, this article probably isn't for you. However, I hope you will check it out anyway. Any and all feedback is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance, and peace, love, and blessings to all.

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Writing with an added purpose: 30 Hubs in 30 Days Challenge.

Writing with an added purpose: 30 Hubs in 30 Days Challenge.

Hello once again folks. It's your main man Brad H coming at you once again. This is the third article that I wrote for the "30 hubs in 30 days challenge". This article basically gives an overview of all the members doing the challenge. It also discusses how the challenge even came up, and how I planned on tackling it. I can't really say anything else about this particular article, otherwise you probably wouldn't read it. Anyway, here it is for your viewing pleasure. Any and all feedback is welcomed. Thanks again, and I'll be posting another article tomorrow. Peace, love, and blessings.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

"Battleship" (2012) movie review.

"Battleship" (2012) movie review.

Hello once again. It's ya boy Brad H coming right back at you again. Well tonight I'm posting the second article that I published for the "30 hubs in 30 days challenge" that I just completed. The article itself is a movie review of the film "Battleship". I saw the movie while I was in Ft. Worth back in the early part of June. If you're interested in what I thought about the movie, feel free to click on the link and check it out. Thanks for your time, and I'll be back with the third article tomorrow. Peace, love, and blessings.

Monday, July 16, 2012

Boxers: Shane Mosley, Winky Wright, and Antonio Margarito announce retirements.

Boxers: Shane Mosley, Winky Wright, and Antonio Margarito announce retirements.

This was the first hub that I wrote for the "30 hubs in 30 days challenge". The article is basically a boxing article that discussed the retires of Shane Mosley, Winky Wright, and Antonio Margarito. All three boxers announced their retirements in the early part of June. Hope you enjoy.

Quick update, and results on "30 hubs in 30 days challenge".

Hey what's up good people. It's ya boy Brad H coming back at you once again. I know it's been about a month since I last updated anything on this blog. I apologize deeply for that. I originally intended on keeping this blog updated while doing the 30 day challenge on Hubpages. However, I ended up getting behind on writing the articles. This led to having pressed time to get the challenge done. Thankfully, I was able to finish up the challenge. It turned out to be a lot more challenging than I had originally intended. However, it was definitely a learning experience.

There were a few other issues that occurred over the last month or so that were family related. Those issues played a role in my getting behind on the challenge, along with writing on this blog weekly. At any rate, the worse appears to be over with for the moment. I'm hoping that trend continues, and I can get back focused on this blog. Starting today, I will be posting each individual article I wrote on the challenge here for whoever wants to read them. Although I reached 30 articles in the 30 day time period, the final article I wrote ended up getting unpublished. So even though I technically done 30 hubs, I'm only getting credited for 29. It's okay though -- I'm not sweating it too much.

Well that's it for now folks. Just wanted to come with a brief update. Despite my absence from this blog, I am alive and doing well. I'm planning on getting back to the regularly scheduled topics sometime this week. Got quite a few thing that I'm looking to discuss on "Brad H's Perspective". Thanks to everyone who follows and keeps up with me. I really appreciate it. I'm going to go ahead and end this, so peace, love and blessings to all. I'm out!

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Continue to look for an edge.

Hello come one come all. It's Brad H coming back at you again, and you are reading another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". If you are reading this blog posting, I appreciate you taking out the time to join me again. I hope that everyone is having a wonderful week up to this point. I'm doing pretty well myself. I've just been continuing to create and come up with ideas to write about. The 30 hub in 30 days challenge that I've mentioned several times before starts tomorrow on Friday June 15th. For those of you who are not familiar with this challenge, it's a popular challenge that content writers on Hubpages (hubpages.com) take part in. It's an experience where you write 30 articles(hubs) in a 30 day time span. One of my fellow members on Hubpages encouraged me to do it with her. We've also had several people to commit to joining us on this journey. I'm pretty excited about doing this challenge, and having the support from others while going through it. I'll continue to keep a steady update on my progress with the challenge. I'll be posting the hubs that I write on here, but you can also read my writings on Hubpages at http://prospectboy.hubpages.com/. Alright lets get into what we're discussing today.

Last week I was at the park doing some running with my younger sister. She claims that she likes working out with me because I help keep her motivated. Little does she know that she does the same thing for me as well. While we were running, I kept talking to her and trying to encourage her to keep moving forward. At one point during the jog, I told her these words; "You're out here running and getting your health right, while so many others are sitting on the couch doing nothing". The reason that I bring up this experience is because I think it fits perfectly with today's topic - which is looking for an edge. We have to continue to look for and find an edge in life. Now I know that everyone isn't able to run or do physical activities, but finding an edge isn't only limited to physical activities. I just used it for an example in this particular scenario. Life is sometimes a game. It's almost like a competition in a way. We sometimes compete with ourselves, but we also have to compete with others as well. In order to be prepared for what life brings, we must have that extra edge over the competition.

Finding "the edge" can relate to any aspect of life. It can relate to academics, career, sports, or even writing. Imagine this scenario: If there were two students who are both trying to make an A on a test, who do you think has the better chance? The student who gets tired and goes to sleep while doing little studying, or the student who stays up late studying, and doesn't rest until he or she knows all the material well? I'm willing to bet that the student that went that extra mile to study would most likely do better. If you research and study people like Michael Jordan, Will Smith, or any other person who is talented at something, it's likely that you will find that they worked at something until they became great at it. This all coincides with finding that added edge. Many people don't know that Michael Jordan was cut from his high school's basketball team the first time he tried out. He worked at becoming a better basketball player, and look at the end result. He is now considered one of the greatest players to ever play in the NBA. I recall watching a video where Will Smith claimed that he wasn't the most gifted actor, but he said he works harder than anyone else to be the best actor he can. Now he is one of the most popular actors in the world. I'm sure that in order for these guys to become great, they had to look for an edge over their competition.

A lot of times when I'm running and I feel myself getting tired, I think to myself that I'm doing something that is benefiting to me. I think to myself that if and when I participate in my next race, I will be even more prepared than someone who didn't put the time and effort into doing their best. It's all about finding an edge over the competition, and sticking with it until it pays off for us. I'm always brainstorming and coming up with ideas to write and talk about. It definitely can't hurt in helping me to gain an edge over someone else who probably decides give up or quit. Alright folks that's it for this weeks edition of "Brad H's Perspective". As always I hope that you enjoyed reading this blog, and hopefully you were able to find some motivation in it. Be sure to leave comments and let me know what you think about all of this. Are there any interests that you have where you are looking for an edge? Would love to see your feedback. I will continue to keep this blog updated while I'm doing the 30 in 30 challenge, so continue to stay tuned. Till next time peace, love, and blessings to all. I'm out!

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Lets start holding ourselves accountable.

Hello once again good people. It's ya boy Brad H back at you again. I know it probably feels like it's been a hot minute since the last update. If you are reading this post, you already know what time it is. It's time for another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". Thanks to all for joining me on this blog once again. I hope that everyone is having a great week up to this point. If you read my previous blog post before this one, I mentioned that I was going out of town to visit with my family. I made it back home this past Tuesday, so that's the reason why I'm just now able to update this weeks post. I usually try to update earlier in the week, so now you understand why I wasn't able to. My trip with my family went pretty good. I enjoyed myself a lot, and it's always great to see my godmother, her husband(who has become one of the good friends), and my great aunt. While I was there I went and saw the movie "Battleship". I heard a lot of good things about it before seeing it, but it honestly didn't live up to what I was expecting from it. There were a few good scenes here and there, but overall I found it pretty boring. I was sitting there yawning from the halfway point of the movie till the end. Alright lets get down to the get down, and get into this weeks topic.

Many times when things go wrong or bad in our lives, we look for someone else to point the finger at. If we aren't blaming other people for the troubling times in our lives, then it's certain circumstances that we use for the blame. We do whatever we feel necessary to deflect the attention from ourselves. This is one of the methods we use in order to make ourselves feel better about certain situations in our lives. I think that's exactly what it all boils down to; making ourselves feel better when we are down. There isn't anything wrong with trying to make ourselves feel better if we can. No one in their right mind wants to intentionally come down hard on themselves. However, I believe there is a difference between taking responsibility for our actions, compared to blaming others to make ourselves feel better. You may ask yourself; "Brad H where are you getting at with all of this?" The point that I'm trying to make is that we need to hold ourselves accountable for our actions. Consistently Putting the blame on others is the easy route out of facing our problems head on. What some people don't seem to realize is that -- no matter how much you blame your problems or circumstances on others, there is no way of getting around them. Why? Because you aren't getting to the root of the problem. Since you aren't getting to the root of the problem, there is no way that your problems will be solved.

We all most likely know someone who blames everything wrong in their lives on other people and circumstances. We've all done it before at some time or another, and some of us right now may still be doing it. This is a habit that we need to focus on stopping. Blaming others will not help in bettering ourselves. You ever notice how when some people do something good or get recognized for accomplishing something positive they've done, they are quick to take credit for it? However, it seems that if and when that same individual makes a mistake or does something bad, they would rather run away and deflect the blame. Please don't get me mistaken. I'm not saying that everyone is that like. We all know and realize that there are people in the world who hold themselves accountable in all situations when deemed necessary. It just appears to be so many people who would rather blame others and take the easiest way possible out. We have to learn to hold ourselves accountable for our own lives. All of the decisions and choices that we make start within us first. We have to remember that in order to solve a problem or situation, we must get to the root of what's causing it. That's the only way that we are going to learn to take accountability for our own lives.

Alright peeps that's it for this weeks blog post. I hope anyone who read enjoyed it. Feel free to leave your feedback in the comment section. Remember that the goal with this blog is to become better people individually. That includes myself as well. By the way before I go, I want to let everyone who is interested know that I met my 25 miles in total goal for the month of May. I've touched on it in previous posts, but I don't believe that I mentioned I had finished. I still have to post the running activities up on this blog, and I will hopefully get around to doing that soon. I also have several articles from Hubpages that I need to add. I'm looking to get all of that information updated on here soon. Also the "30 hub in 30 day challenge" that I'm doing with a friend on Hubpages is coming up soon. I believe we are starting on the 15th of this month. That should be both fun and challenging. I will be sure to keep anyone interested in my progress on that updated as well. Alright I'm out so until the next post, I wish peace, love, and blessings to all.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Don't allow others opinions to define you.

What's up again good people? You already know who this is; It's ya man Brad H coming at you again with another weekly edition of "Brad H's Perspective". I hope everyone is doing fairly well, and had an enjoyable Memorial Day weekend. Before I get into this week's topic, I want to give a quick update on my progress with the goal I set on Runkeeper(runkeeper.com). To my delight, I found out that I'm able to post and share my running activities from Runkeeper on blogger. I've posted two running activities thus far, and I have two others that I've yet to post. I'm aiming to post those following this blog post here. As far as my progress with the goal itself, I've completed 23 out of the 25 mile goal that I set for this month. That means that I now have 2 more days to run two miles. Should be a piece of cake right? I'm pretty confident that I will be able to finish out the goal for the month. I never had any doubts in my mind that I could complete this goal. Mainly because I know the type of person that I am. Once I dedicate myself to doing something, I don't rest until it's done. I hope you will continue to stay tuned with my running progression. Alright it's time for this weeks topic.

We all know that everyone who is living and breathing are going to have opinions. We also know that we as a people have opinions on a variety of different things and topics. Opinions can be limitless when it comes to forming them. They also can be for good or for bad. Unfortunately, we live in a world where most people tend to form negative opinions and thoughts of others. It's like some people are constantly looking for the worst in other people. Instead of forming positive opinions and trying to find something good to say about others, people let negativity take them over. Here is a prime example of what I mean. I was at my younger cousins 8th grade graduation last Friday, and all I heard was negativity from various people that were sitting around me. Many of them were making comments about what others were wearing when they walking into the gym. Some were even criticizing some of the young students for what they were wearing. I was sitting there thinking to myself;"Yo this is ridiculous". However, as ignorant and non-important as I found it, I knew there was nothing I could do to stop it. People are going to say and think whatever they want, and that's just a fact of life. As bad and negative as this type of thinking can be at times, the great thing is that we don't have to let others opinions define who we are.

There are so many times where we worry about what others think of us. Now I'm not saying this is a bad thing when it comes to certain people. Of course we are going to care what our family and close friends think of us. That's because we know most of them mean well and have our best interests are heart. However, we shouldn't get caught up in what other people who don't matter think of us. As much as some people try it make life out to be a popularity contest, it's not. Our lives and how we view them should be based around how we view ourselves. Our opinions of ourselves are really all that matter in the end. We can only live our lives for ourselves. Nobody can live your life for you, so focus on your own thoughts, ideas, and opinions. Don't allow yourself to get caught up in what others think of you. The moment that we do that is the moment that we are allowing our minds to be controlled. We're not robots, so we aren't made to be controlled. Having our own thoughts and making our own choices are what life is all about. Allowing other peoples opinions of us be to a defining factor in our lives is guaranteed to make us miserable inside. I don't know about you, but I feel life is extremely too short to constantly be miserable. What do you think?

Alright folks that's it for this weeks edition of Brad H's Perspective. As I've mentioned in several blog posts before, I'm far from a perfect person, and I struggle with things as well. My goal with this blog is to motivate others, and motivate myself to become better in the that process. I want to learn from other people, and hopefully they are able to learn from me as well. Would love to hear feedback on what you think of this topic, so feel free to leave and drop comments. I will be headed out of town this upcoming weekend to visit family, so I may be late with next weeks post. However, I will be back again sometime next week with a posting, so be sure to stay tuned. Remember that life is what WE make of it. Don't worry about or stress over what others think of you. It's like a lyric that I heard in a song that I like. I don't know who the artist on the song is, but it's a track from on of K-Murdock's albums. The lyric goes; "Life is what you make of it and people will doubt you. It's not about them, it's really about you". I couldn't agree more, and that's probably the reason why I listen to that song so much. Alright everyone I'm out, so thanks for reading and I wish you continued peace, love, and blessings. Have a great week.

Monday, May 21, 2012

Be your own motivator!


Hello once again good people. It's ya man Brad H coming back at you again with another weekly edition of "Brad H's Perspective". As always I hope this blog post reaches everyone in great health and spirits. As for me, I'm doing better myself. I had gotten sick early last week, so that slowed me down for a few days. It was even more unfortunate because I had to miss a few days of running. Some of you may remember that I mentioned in a couple of blog posts ago that I set a goal of 25 total miles of running for the month of May. My little sick spell held me back a few days. However, I'm now back on track and feeling much better. I think that Runkeeper, which is the site I use to track my runs has a option of posting runs to a blog. I'll be sure to check next time, and if so, I'll start posting my running activities on here. There is also something else that happened recently that excited me. I got the opportunity to see "Marvels: The Avengers" yesterday. This was the first movie for 2012 that I was highly anticipating to go see, and it definitely didn't disappoint. Being a huge fan of comic book and hero movies, I enjoyed it a lot. I hope some of you have been able to see it also. Alright it's time to get into this weeks topic.

Many of us constantly look to other people to help keep us motivated. I'm in no way saying this is a bad thing, it most definitely isn't. I will be the first to admit that there are tons of information and sources I use to help keep myself motivated. When I'm working out or running, I think about and refer a lot of the videos I've watched of great athletes or personal trainers. People who excelled at whatever sport they were good at, or words of wisdom they use always inspires me. Sometimes I may read a blog or article about someone who got themselves into excellent shape, or became more healthier by losing weight. Things of this nature this play a large role in my motivation. As great as outside factors besides ourselves are for motivation, it's important for us to be our own motivators as well. I know this concept may sounds really simple to some, but many of us are solely using the motivation from others as our primary motivating factor. If there are goals we want to achieve or obstacles we are looking to get past, we have to look within ourselves first. Everything that we do must start within ourselves. Other factors that we use for motivation are only supposed to help enhance what we already have within us.

I could use this blog that I post on as a prime example. I have to have a passion for writing in this blog and keeping it updated on a regular basis. When I read other peoples blogs or watch others post video vlogs on various online platforms, it encourages me to want to step up my game. However, it doesn't matter how much I read or watch others if I'm not personally driven by something within me. We can't always use others to be our sole source of being motivation. We need to find things and interests that we like, and focus on being our own primary motivators. Use the motivation from others to help you create and enhance what you should already have inside of you. If you can't find that fire or drive to do something, then it's most likely not for you. There's no need to force anything. If it's really something that you're interested in, you will naturally enjoy doing it.

Alright folks that's it for this installment of Brad H's Perspective. Just to recap real quick, focus on being your primary motivator. Lets allow the things we want to do in life be all us and not about other people. Try to stay personally driven. There may come a time where others aren't around to push us, so we gotta look deep within ourselves and find that source of strength. It's a simple, but important concept. One that I don't think can be stressed enough. So what do you think about this topic? I would love to see others feedback on this along with my other topics in general. Feel free to drop comments and leave your opinions. We're all on here to learn. Well I'm out peeps, but we'll be back later on in the week, or early next week if God says the same. I hope you enjoyed reading this blog and post, and hopefully it helped provide some extra motivation. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm already feeling more motivated. Till next time, peace, love, and blessings.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Focus on becoming better, not perfect.

What's up? What's up? What's up? It's ya boy Brad H coming back at you again with another edition of "Brad H's Perspective". How is everyone doing? I hope that you all are doing well, staying up, and maintaining. Before we get into this week's discussion, I want to apologize for this post being two days late. I normally try to write and update this blog every Sunday. However, with Mothers Day taking place this past Sunday, I ran out of time. I also want to say Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers out there. I hope you all enjoyed your special day. You women are truly the backbone of life, and you should be appreciated daily. Secondly, I ran out of time updating yesterday as well. I had to help my younger sister move some things out of her dorm room since the end of the college semester is closely approaching for her. Anyway, I'm back now and we are going to get into this week's topic.

Perfection is something that many of us look to achieve. I mean lets be honest, there is nothing wrong with wanting things to be perfect. If it were up to many of us, we would be living in a perfect world. Remember that song from the 80's "Perfect World" by Huey Lewis & The News? Oh man how I miss the music from the 80's and 90's. Okay I know I'm getting off topic, but at least the song coincides with what I'm talking about. There is nothing in life that will completely be perfect. No matter how perfect people claim to be, everything and everyone have flaws. I know that a lot of these Hollywood celebrities and entertainers want us to think they are perfect, but that's far from the truth. Maybe they feel that way because so many fans seem to worship them, which is something I don't understand. That's another topic for another day though. Health and fitness is another area that some people strive for perfection at. Some people almost kill themselves to develop and sculpt that perfect body that we see athletes, entertainers, and trainers have. Is it really worth it in the end though? Perfection is unattainable, so instead of focusing on becoming perfect, why not focus on becoming a better person? Don't you think that becoming a better person is more achievable than being perfect? I personally think so.

Becoming a better person is something that all of us can achieve if we want. One of the major problems that discourages people from taking steps towards becoming better is that "being perfect" mindset. Becoming an overall better person is so much easier than being perfect. All it takes is taking small steps daily, and a will to change for the better. I'm in no way saying it's an easy task bettering ourselves. Becoming a better person can definitely be a challenge for us all. We all have different things about our lives and ourselves that we want to change. No person's situation is the same when it comes to wanting to change. I see a lot of people who have the same mindset they had a few years ago. Some are still thinking the way they did 10 or 20 years ago. Shouldn't life about changing and evolving as we get older? Shouldn't becoming a wiser and better person before we leave this Earth be a goal of ours. Bettering ourselves isn't only limited to our mind and our thoughts. There are variety of ways we can look to better ourselves. The way we interact with those we care about and people in general can be something we strive to do better. Improving our situations and circumstances can be another example. There are so many ways we can better ourselves, the opportunities are limitless. We just have to evaluate who we are and the things we want to change about ourselves.

If you are one of those people that is striving for perfection, I admire you. As I mentioned before, there is nothing wrong with wanting things to be perfect or striving to become the perfect person. Just know and be aware that none of us are perfect, so in essence it's a losing battle. All we can do is focus on being the best individuals we can be. I personally don't strive for being perfect. I want to better myself with each and every step that life brings. If I can do that consistently, then I can be satisfied with who I am. Daily improvements are how we become better. It's not about becoming perfect, but becoming better. Well that's it for this post peeps. I hope that anyone who read this post enjoyed it, and hopefully you were able to find some inspiration in it. I know that I'm already feeling inspired just by writing it out. I'm planning on getting in a run later on, and I'm looking to slowly improve my time from my previous run. I'm not looking to become perfect, I'm just looking to be the best person I can be. I wish the same for you as well. I hope to see you all again later on in this week. Till then peace, love, and blessings.

Monday, May 7, 2012

Lets learn to roll with the punches.

Hello once again to all. You already know who it is, and what time it is. It's ya man Brad H. coming back at you again. Welcome to another edition of Brad H's Perspective. I hope that everyone had a positive and fulfilling week, and you're ready for another positive week ahead. I had a great run earlier this evening. It helped in getting me even more motivated to do this blog post. By the way, I set a goal on Runkeeper(runkeeper.com) earlier in the week. The goal is to run 25 total miles this month. I'm 12% of the way through with it, so I got a ways to go. However, i'll get there slowly through discipline and just showing up. I'll keep those interested with my progress throughout the month in future posts. Now lets get to what we're discussing today. In this post I want to discuss the term "rolling with the punches", and how we must learn to take the punches that life sometimes deals us. I think it's pretty fitting that I chose the right title for this particular post. We had a great night of boxing last night with Floyd Mayweather Jr. taking on Miguel Cotto. We also got to see Saul "Canelo" Alvarez take on "Sugar" Shane Mosley. I hope you all were able to catch the fights and enjoyed them. Now lets get into what we're discussing today.

First off, lets ask a question. If you happened to get into a physical altercation with someone, which type of punch do you think would hurt you most? Getting punched while you are standing still, or taking a punch that hits you while you are moving? I'm willing to bet you said the punch that hits you while standing still would hurt more. That's exactly right. As simple as that question may sound, it's a perfect example for being able to roll with the punches. We know that all punches hurt, but the ones that hit us while we are moving, or the ones that we are more prepared for hurt less. That's one of the reasons why boxers move so much in the ring. They know they are going to get hit, but the goal is to be able to absorb and take the shots. We can equate this logic to our everyday lives. It's a fact that no matter who you are, or how well off you are in this world, there are going to be times when life hits you. There is no way of getting around it. When life hits, it's often unexpected most of the time. There are a number of time in our lives when unexpected events will happen. Some can be for good, and some are bad. However, we must learn to roll with the blows that life sometimes deals us.

There are various unexpected events that can happen to catch us off guard. The death of someone close to us, finding out someone we love, or even ourselves having a terminal disease. A disappointment or setback in a job or something career related, or relationship problems can catch us off guard as well. There are no limits as to the tough times life can bring us. It reminds me a lot of Sylvester Stallone's speech to his son in the movie, "Rocky Balboa". He said that "Nobody hits harder than life". I found this to be such a true and powerful statement. When life hits, all we can do is keep moving forward. Yes it's sometimes going to hurt, but we can't allow the bad times keep us down. Any and all things can be overcome if we want to get through them. Wallowing in our problems is not the answer to solving them. Faith, belief, and effort are the keys.

Lets let today be the day we dust off our burdens and get up. Lets make an effort to roll with the punches that life brings us. Lets prepare ourselves to be as ready as we possibly can. Athletes train for competition to be prepared, so lets train our minds to be as ready as we possibly can for the hardships of life. We all know they are coming. I'm going to leave a link to the inspiration speech by Rock Balboa at the bottom. For those of you who haven't seen this movie, I hope you enjoy this clip. It's truly inspiring. Well that's it for this week of Brad H's Perspective. I already feel motivated by reading my own words. I hope that anyone who reads this finds it inspiring. I'm only focused on being as positive as I can be. I'm far from perfect, so like I've said before I want to push myself to be better. I hope you all have a great week, and we'll be back at it again later on in the week. Till then, I send peace, love, and blessings to all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_Vg4uyYwEk

Monday, April 30, 2012

Quick recipe for Popcorn Cake.

Quick recipe for Popcorn Cake.

Are you comfortable in your own skin?


Hello once again. This is ya boy Brad H. coming back at you again. It's another Sunday night, and this is another installment of Brad H's Perspective. I hope that everyone is doing well and had a great week. It's always a blessing to live to see another day. It's also a blessing to be able to start another week ahead. Tonight I want to discuss something that I've been thinking about during the week. I told myself earlier when I was running that I would write on this topic. This topic first begins with a question. The question I want to ask is; how many of us are really comfortable in our own skin? I know many of you have heard of this saying before. Many times we say we are comfortable and satisfied with who we are, but are we really? Is it only at certain times, or do we just say we are to make ourselves feel better? Lets delve into it a bit.

I heard something on a television show not too long ago that struck me as being very very interesting. This woman on the show told one of her friends that real happiness starts within ourselves, and that anyone else in our lives are supposed to enhance that happiness. I found this to be a profound and honest statement. So much so that I've been telling almost everyone that I know about it, with most of them agreeing with it. So many of us are quick to say we are happy with ourselves, but as soon as a situation becomes tough or uncomfortable, we are looking to others for support. Don't get me wrong, I think it's important to have support at a lot of times in our lives. However, many of us suffer from a lack of faith in ourselves. We are not always willing to challenge ourselves when times get rough. Too many of us are afraid be alone in some instances. People are not always going to be around for us. We have to learn to make decisions and choices on our own sometimes. Some people claim to be comfortable with themselves, but act differently or put up a front when they get around certain people. A person who is comfortable in their own skin stays true to who they are regardless of who is around, or what happens in life.

Another thing I have noticed is a lot of people trying to fit in with what the world is doing. The thought of not being in the "in crowd" is a scary thought for some people, and they will do almost anything to feel accepted by others. I feel that a person who is truly happy with themselves doesn't fear loneliness or being criticized by others. The most important thing that we need to keep in mind is to be who we really are at all times. We shouldn't worry about fitting in with what everyone else is doing. Like the saying goes, "real recognize real". If we be the person that we truly are, there will be people who are doing the same thing who will notice. Those are the people we need to surround ourselves around. So what if certain friends turn their backs on us? Don't worry about it. Keep on pushing forward and find new friends that will have your back and share some of the interests you have. Life is never limited to just one or a few things. There are a number of various people in the world that will be accepting of you really are. We have to love ourselves first.

Lets focus on being comfortable within ourselves first. Lets not always look towards others for our happiness. At the end of the day faith in ourselves is all we need. Well that's it for this installment of Brad H's Perspective. I hope it was able to touch someone. Keep in mind that my blog posts are a challenge to myself as well. I'm looking to grow and become a better person. Hopefully during that process, I'm able inspire others as well. I hope to see you all in the next installment. Till then, I hope everyone has a great week ahead. Peace, love, and blessings to all.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Lets keep it moving!

What's up people? It's ya man Brad H. coming back at you once again. Can you digg it? Yea I know you can. Hope everyone is doing well and keeping your heads up high. It's a sunny Sunday afternoon and I felt it was time for me to write about something that I've been thinking about heavily for the last week or so. I actually wanted to write on this subject earlier in the week, but I'm just now getting around to doing it. Hey better late than never right? Anyway, I want to talk about a phrase that I find myself using a lot these days. It's the phrase "Keep it moving". That's exactly what each of us needs to do in life, keep on moving forward. However, moving forward can sometimes be a daunting task for many of us. Often times certain things and circumstances from our past, and even sometimes in our present try to keep us from pressing forward. Regardless as to what we are dealing with in our lives, we can't allow them to deter us from going on.

So what are some of the things that hold us back from "keeping it moving"? Well like I mentioned before circumstances play a huge factor. No one individual is in the same situation or circumstances. Many times we feel like we are trapped in situations that we can't seem to find our way out of. It's not only limited to situations; people can sometimes play a factor as well. There are some people in this world that will do or say anything they can to bring us down. It seems like this world now brings way more negativity from people than positive energy. This can greatly affect our self-esteem, which in turn can keep us from moving forward. Now as bad as these things I mentioned are, they can all be overcome; that is only if we want to get through them. No hurdles or obstacles are too great to be beaten. We can only defeat them if we want. In order to "keep it moving", it all begins within ourselves.

The next time that something disappointing happens, lets make the effort to keep it moving. Fellas, next time you approach a woman that looks attractive to you and she doesn't seem very interested, keep it moving. The same thing goes for you ladies. If you know you're a good woman and a man doesn't appreciate you, keep it moving. Next time someone says something negative to you in order to beat you down, keep it moving. There is so much better out there for us, and we won't see the better if we allow the worse keep us down. I won't sit here and pretend like I'm an expert at this. Like everyone else I struggle with things also. However, I will admit that I've gotten better at keeping it moving. I don't let thing that used to beat me down get to me like they once did. However, there is always room for improvement.

Well that's it for this time peeps. I hope anyone who read this found a bit of inspiration. I also want to apologize for not keeping up with posting my ten hubs that I mentioned in my previous blog post. I'm still posting them, I just haven't been able to do it in the time span I originally mentioned. I'm also going to try to write on this blog at least once a week. I'm aiming for posting every Sunday like I did with this one. Hopefully, I will be able to stick with it, so we'll see how that goes. Well you all take care, stay up, and continue to keep it moving. Till next time peace, love, and blessings.

Monday, April 2, 2012

My personal 10 Hubs in 10 Days Challenge.

Hello once again folks. It's ya man Brad H. coming back at you again. I'm coming to you on a rainy Monday evening here in Texas. I can't speak for everyone else, but rainy days provide little motivation to do much. However, we can't let the rain keep us from doing what we got to do. At any rate I hope this reaches you all in good health and spirits. Today's post is going to be fairly brief and straight to the point. It's about a personal challenge that I embarked on almost two weeks ago. I called it the "10 Hub in 10 Days Challenge".



Some of you know or may be familiar with the passion that I've developed for blogging. The website, Hubpages is one of the sites that I blog on. I've been writing on Hubpages for around 7 months. Up until I decided to do this challenge I set for myself, I had written 19 hubs. Hubs are the name given to articles on Hubpages. I've been looking for a way to become more motivated to write on Hubpages, so I set the 10 Hubs in 10 Days Challenge for myself. Now before I go any further, I want to say that there is another challenge that many other writers on Hubpages do. It's called the "30 Hubs in 30 Days Challenge". The name of this challenge is pretty self-explanatory like the one I made for myself. I'll talk more about the 30 day challenge in a bit.

I wanted to set a challenge for myself that I feel would challenge me, but would also allow me to reach it as well. As I mentioned in previous posts, you don't have to go all out everyday in reaching your goals. Small goals and small steps are key. Three days into my personal challenge, I posted a question on Hubpages asking if anyone wanted to join me on the challenge. I received two responses, and one of the writers decided to do the challenge with me. Now I personally found this to be a great thing. Not only did I have someone else encouraging me to finish out this task, but I was helping to motivate someone else also. I love it when support comes from someone else, or a group of other individuals. This is something that I actually wrote about in one of my hubs.

Now that I've finished the challenge, I'm going to be posting the 10 articles on my blog for anyone who wants to read them. I'll be posting one article daily until all ten are posted. I want to give a special thanks to Hubpages user http://karenhellier.hubpages.com/. She is the writer who took the challenge with me. We've corresponded several times through e-mail, and we've both decided to tackle the 30 Hubs in 30 Days Challenge. She is the person who inspired me to want to take on this new challenge. We are planning on starting the challenge in June, so I'm going to start preparing myself to be ready. I'm definitely up for it. Well that's it for today folks. I'll start posting articles tomorrow. If you want to read my hubs, you can read them at http://prospectboy.hubpages.com/. I'm also going to be adding a widget from Hubpages to my blog, so you can read my material that way as well. Well take care everyone, and I will be back soon. Till then, peace and blessings to all.

Monday, March 19, 2012

My experience of running my first 5K race.

Hello once again. This is Brad H. coming back at you. I hope that anyone who reads this is in good health and spirits. This is a post that I've been wanting to write and update for a little over a week now. However, due to some circumstances and the receiving of some terrible news regarding a family member, I'm just now getting around to doing it. I guess I will stick to the saying "better late than never" in this case. On March 10, 2012, I done something that I had previously never done before; I had run in my first 5K race. Some of you are familiar with my previous blog postings. This had been a goal that I had been wanting to accomplish for awhile, and I was finally able to complete it. Now that the experience is over with, I want to take some time to reflect upon and share how special it was to me.

Race bib and timing chip. I thought it was cool that they had our first name on there. I wasn't expecting that.


The day before the race was a tense day for me. I honestly was not nervous leading up to this day, but that soon changed. The race was taking place at 8 a.m. in the morning. I live about an hour away, so I had to leave early to get there. I went to sleep around 10:30 that night. That's when the anticipation of the event honestly began to affect me. I tossed and turned an hour just thinking how things were going to go. I fell asleep for a couple of hours, and soon found myself awake again. After 30 minutes or so, I dozed back off. My alarm went off at 5 a.m., and I knew the time had come. Me, my mom, and sister got on the road around 5:45 a.m. Upon arriving I noticed there was a lot of traffic. It was clear to me that this was a major event, and I was happy to know that I was a part of it. This is when the nervousness that I felt earlier began to fade away.

Me before the race took place.


I parked around 7:30 a.m. This gave me 30 minutes to prepare mentally for the race. Around 10 minutes to 8 a.m., the announcer called for all participants of the 5K to come onto the course. I stepped out on the course amazed at how many people were doing it. Those of you who have followed my post know that I was aiming to do the race in 30 minutes or under. This was another thought going through my mind as I waited for the start. With a minute left to go, the countdown to the start began. At exactly 8 a.m., we were off and running. I felt a great sense of joy and happiness running with hundreds of people who were all headed in the same direction as me. Sure we all had different reasons for being there, but we all had the same goal in mind, which was to finish.

On the first mile I started out passing people and getting passed up by some as well. There were people of all ages, body types, and fitness levels there. I had my mp3 player on with a variety of different songs to keep me motivated during the race. By the time I reached the 1 mile marker, I noticed the volunteers at the first water point. I quickly grabbed a cup of Gatorade while I was running. Here is a tip for those you planning to run in a race. Slow down while drinking out of the cup, otherwise most of it will end up on your face or shirt like it did mines. Things were going great, but by the time I reached the 2 mile marker I began to fatigue. I really got away from my game plan going into the race. The goal was to push it on the second mile or third mile, but the adrenaline of being there got to me. I pushed too hard on the first mile and wore myself out. However, I continued to soldier along.

With about half of a mile to go, it was obvious to me that I was beginning to slow down. I noticed people that I had previously passed catching up to me, and some were beginning to go past me. I grabbed another cup of water at the final water stop and continued to run along. As we all began to come towards the finish line, there was a female volunteer standing at the last turn on the overpass who really inspired me. She was encouraging us all and gave us all high fives as we passed her. I began towards the finish line and got excited when I saw the crowd there cheering us on. No matter how tired I was, I was determined to finish up strong. That's when I saw my mom and sister cheering me on. I reached down for what strength that was left in my legs and I finished the race. I was very fatigued, but felt a great sense of accomplishment.

Photos I took after I finished of the start/finish line.




After I finished, a volunteer cut off my timing chip from my shoe. I went and got myself a banana and some water, and then went to find my mom and sister. I stayed around a bit to cheer on others finishing up the race. A few minutes later I went to the screen to see my time. To my great delight, I had reached the goal I set for myself. My chip time for the race was 29:43, which meant that I finished in under 30 minutes. I finished 163 overall, and 15th among the 30-34 age group. I was very happy and satisfied with my performance. After leaving the event, me and my family went to IHOP to enjoy a well deserved breakfast.

I really enjoyed running in my first 5K race. It was definitely an experience that I will keep close to my heart. The volunteers were great, and the people who set-up the event were excellent as well. I want to thank everyone at the Gusher Marathon, Half-Marathon, and 5K for allowing me to be a part of it. They are truly wonderful and encouraging people. I will definitely be participating next year if everything goes well. My personal goal is to run in the half-marathon next year, so we will see how that goes. As for the immediate future, I want to do another 5K race, and then run in a 10K in November of this year. That gives me a few months to train for and get ready for that also. Running in my first 5K race was the best way to start out my birthday weekend. It was also the greatest birthday gift that I could have given myself. I want to thank everyone who gave me encouraging words. They definitely did not fall on deaf ears. I also want to thank the "Couch to 5K" running program. I wouldn't have had the confidence to do the race without it. I can't say thank you enough to you all.

Well that's it for this time folks. I will continue to keep you all update on my future running endeavors. I hope you enjoy the few pictures that I posted on this post as well. I'll be back again soon writing, so stay tuned. Till then peace, love, and blessings to all.